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ARE YOU TRYING TO RAISE YOUR KIDS WHILE NAVIGATING A DESTRUCTIVE FAMILY SYSTEM?
A destructive family system is one in which some or all of the individuals regularly experience conflict, abuse, neglect, trauma, and/or an imbalance of power & control.
Are you co-parenting with someone who:
- has an addiction?
- is emotionally or physically absent?
- has narcissistic tendencies?
- is abusive towards you and/or the kids?
Are you parenting while navigating:
- difficult and/or destructive family of origin?
- separation or divorce?
- trauma?
You're in the right place
You've Found Peace in (or after) Your Destructive Marriage
We help moms recovering from destructive relationships bring up resilient children, without alienating the other parent; while they build a village around them.
Grounded in the Christian faith, we help you and your child[ren] connect with God, yourselves, and each other; create sustainable support systems; and stock your toolbox with emotional regulation techniques, scripts and more, contributing to healthier relationships and ending the cycle of trauma.
IF REGULAR MARRIAGE ADVICE DIDN’T WORK FOR YOUR DESTRUCTIVE MARRIAGE, WHY WOULD REGULAR PARENTING STRATEGIES WORK FOR yOUR KIDS IN DESTRUCTIVE FAMILY SYSTEMS?
You And Your Kids Need Support That Understands
Get guidance and counsel from someone who has been where you are, sees how much you fear for your children’s wellbeing, and knows what to do about it.
Have Emotionally Healthy Kids Regardless of the Circumstances
Pastors and well-meaning people helpers often see marriage as the first, and sometimes only line of defense against the negative influences our children can experience from society. This means more pressure to appear perfect as a family unit, and not step outside of it for help.
On the flip side, survivors often believe that fighting for custody in court is what will keep your kids safe. But the reality is, that often leaves you drained – emotionally, physically and financially – and doesn’t guarantee a positive outcome. In fact, more often than not, it does more harm than good.
Join our Mosaic of Warrior Mamas
Empowering our kids to break cycles of abuse and building the village you need to thrive.
In The Village, you will:
- Learn new techniques and strategies to help your kids with emotional regulation and more.
- Build your own resilience, as well as your children's.
- Help your kids know how to speak up, and when it's not safe to do so.
- Work with your child to process their trauma, rather than adapting to it.
- Tell your REAL story and learn from the wisdom of those in similar situations.
- Implement what you're learning with the opportunity for feedback in a safe environment.
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IT CAN HURT WHEN YOUR FAMILY DOESN’T LOOK LIKE YOU HOPED, OR WORSE YET, IMPLODES. IT CAN HURT EVEN MORE WHEN YOU MAKE THE HARD CHOICE TO REMOVE YOURSELF FROM A DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIP ONLY TO HAVE TO SEND YOUR KIDS BACK INTO IT EVERY OTHER WEEK OR ON HOLIDAYS.
That’s why I won’t rest until you win the battle for your children’s well-being.
Don’t let your kids be collateral damage anymore
You know your kids need better. You want better for them. Take the steps to be the mother they need, and you’ll walk into the motherhood you dreamed of.
Give Your Kids Emotional Resilience
You need tools to give your kids emotional resilience – so they can have a safe place to land even when they’re not with you.
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