you don't need a good marriage to raise emotionally healthy kids
It takes a Village to raise a child. You can build it!
ARE YOU TRYING TO RAISE YOUR KIDS WHILE NAVIGATING A DESTRUCTIVE FAMILY SYSTEM?
A destructive family system is one in which some or all of the individuals regularly experience conflict, abuse, neglect, trauma, and/or an imbalance of power & control.
Are you co-parenting with someone who:
- has an addiction?
- is emotionally or physically absent?
- has narcissistic tendencies?
- is abusive towards you and/or the kids?
Are you parenting while navigating:
- difficult and/or destructive family of origin?
- separation or divorce?
- trauma?
You're in the right place
You've Found Emotional Peace in Your Destructive Marriage
We help moms recovering from destructive relationships bring up resilient children while they build the village it takes to raise them; without alienating the other parent. Grounded in the Christian faith, we help you connect with God, yourself, and your children; create sustainable support systems; and empower you to build a joyful and stable life for your family, contributing to healthier relationships in the future.
You and Your Kids Need Support That Understands

Pastors and well-meaning people helpers often see marriage as the first, and sometimes only line of defense against the negative influences our children can experience from society. This means more pressure to appear perfect as a family unit, and not step outside of it for help.
On the flip side, our culture claims that education is what makes or breaks a child’s future. But that has caused us to focus more on our kids’ education than on our kids. You don’t want to sacrifice your kids’ emotional health to their education.
IF REGULAR MARRIAGE ADVICE DIDN’T WORK FOR YOUR DESTRUCTIVE MARRIAGE, WHY WOULD REGULAR PARENTING STRATEGIES WORK FOR KIDS IN DESTRUCTIVE FAMILY SYSTEMS?
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- Have a place to share your REAL story.
- Learn how to build the community you (and your kids) need.
- Be encouraged to take on your life in a healthy, Godly way.
- Learn to be who God created you - as a woman, mother, warrior, and daughter of the King.
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IT CAN HURT WHEN YOUR FAMILY DOESN’T LOOK LIKE YOU HOPED, OR WORSE YET, IMPLODES. IT CAN HURT EVEN MORE WHEN YOU MAKE THE HARD CHOICE TO REMOVE YOURSELF FROM A DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIP ONLY TO HAVE TO SEND YOUR KIDS BACK INTO IT EVERY OTHER WEEK OR ON HOLIDAYS.
That’s why I won’t rest until you win the battle for your children’s well-being.
Don’t let your kids be collateral damage anymore
You know your kids need better. You want better for them. Take the steps to be the mother they need, and you’ll walk into the motherhood you dreamed of.
Give Your Kids Emotional Resilience
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