Have a coach on your side who’s been where you are!
Motherhood & co-parenting is exhausting. The last thing you want to do is wage another battle (because the harder you try to fight a narcissist, the more likely he is to win).
You’ve put your own oxygen mask on first, and now it’s time to help your children with theirs. But you don’t know where to start! There are so many parenting books and advice out there, yet nothing seems to really fit their situation in a destructive family system. You need someone who knows the complexities of your circumstances and has the tools to navigate them!
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aRE YOU WANTING ANY OF THESE?
I want help for me!
You want your kids to be emotionally healthy and have good relationships, but you don’t know how to help them get there. You need more tools for both you and your kids to thrive. You want real, gritty, actionable steps to take!
I want to help my child!
You know you can’t do this on your own. Your child needs an outside influence, or your teenager won’t listen to you. You still want to help them overcome the trauma and dysfunction, while you work on your relationship with them.
I want accountability!
You want to learn how to build your family’s resilience AND community. You need the accountability and support of a group as you walk this journey of parenting in a destructive family system.
I don't know what i want!
You’re so overwhelmed, you want to scream! You need someone to hold space while you share what you and your kids are going through. Then, you need them to help you determine where to go from there.
COACHING GIVES YOU ALL THis, PLUS STEP-BY-STEP PLANS TO GET OUT OF WHERE YOU ARE AND INTO THE MOTHERHOOD YOU DREAM OF.
If you’re facing any of the following….
- Wishing you knew whether staying with or leaving your destructive spouse was better for your kids?
- Facing separation or divorce, and wondering how to protect and prepare them during their time with the destructive parent?
- Feeling disconnected from your kids, and are unsure why?
- Unsure how to keep your triggers (or theirs) from running the show?
- Struggling to find God, see His goodness, or your power in your circumstances?
- Dealing with behaviors from your kids (or yourself) that don’t make sense?
- Desperate for support, but unsure where or how to find it?
I can guide you through it!
What Does Coaching Involve?
While you talk, I listen. I hear your words and your heart. I withhold judgement and offer compassion.
Together we dig deep. You define where you want to go with your family relationships. I show you oversights and ways you’re currently fighting against yourself to reach that goal.
We create a plan that works for your unique family. All your strengths, weaknesses, personality traits, family style, and goals get accounted for.
While you create the life your family needs, I aid you in holding yourself accountable with encouragement and honesty.
While each coaching experience is unique, here are some things we might wrestle with and examine together.
- Identifying your family’s triggers and what to do about them.
- Understanding how trauma affects the brain, body, and behavior, and how to process it.
- Finding the “sweet spot” of parenting with grace so your relationship with your children is one that will last.
- Living together with, but separate from, a destructive co-parent.
- Creating a co-parenting relationship that is child centerd, rather than court centered.
- Talking to your children about destructive patterns without alienating the other parent.
- Engaging effectively with family and community for yourself and your child.
Not sure whether this is for you??
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LET'S DO THIS
- Stop fearing for your kids and start empowering them.
- Take control of your co-parenting relationship.
- Live the motherhood you’ve always dreamed of, even if it looks different than you expected.
- Become the warrior God calls you to be.
tHIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- You are parenting in, or after a destructive relationship.
- You are a Jesus follower or are Jesus curious
- You are willing to do the hard work to grow.
- You want to break the cycle of dysfunction in your family.
tHIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
- You're still hoping & trying to change your co-parent
- You believe you are powerless to change your family dynamics.
- You just want your kids to behave better.
- You'd rather someone agree with you than challenge your ideas.
No More Doing It Yourself
Don’t stay trapped and struggling when you could have peace and create safety for your children. Schedule a call with me and find out how different life could be.