IF REGULAR MARRIAGE ADVICE DIDN'T WORK FOR YOUR DESTRUCTIVE MARRIAGE,
WHY WOULD REGULAR PARENTING STRATEGIES WORK FOR KIDS IN DESTRUCTIVE FAMILY SYSTEMS?
You can raise great kids, even without a healthy marriage
LET ME GUIDE YOU TO GREATER CONNECTION
aRE YOU...
- Wishing you knew whether staying with or leaving your destructive spouse was better for your kids?
- Feeling disconnected from your kids, and are unsure why?
- Struggling to keep your triggers (or theirs) from running the show?
- Struggling to find God, see His goodness, or your worth in your circumstances?
- Facing separation or divorce, and wondering how to protect and prepare your kids during their time with the destructive parent?
- Dealing with behaviors from your kids (or yourself) that don't make sense?
- Desperate for support, but unsure where (or how) to find it?
What If...
- There was someone who had gone before you?
- Who could look at your situation and see angles you can't see, and help you find answers you never knew you had?
- Who would help you understand your family's triggers and what to do about them?
- Who could help you discover how YOU need to connect with God so it becomes a joyful experience, not a box on a checklist?
- Who would help you find the “sweet spot” with your children so you can finally have the relationship you always dreamed of?
- Who knew how to live with, and separate from, a destructive individual, and wanted to help you create the co-parenting relationship you never thought possible?
- Who could help you understand how trauma effects the brain, body, and behavior?
- Who could help identify how you react in group situations, so you can engage effectively with your family and community?
You already know….
YOU CAN’T DO THIS ALONE
Maybe you have a best friend who loves and encourages you, but motherhood just comes easier to her. Maybe you’re too embarrassed to tell your parents just how bad your marriage is. Maybe you have community, but you’re just not sure they will have your back through THIS. We need people in our lives who will come alongside us to encourage us, challenge us, and spur us on through difficult times. Let me be that person for you! I promise to hold space for you to vent, listen intently for things you haven’t noticed, honestly reflect back your strengths and weaknesses, and help you find the answers you’re seeking. I am not perfect, I do not have it all figured out, and I will not push you in any one direction. I’m someone who’s been there, has gotten a few things right and a TON of things wrong, and has learned from those experiences in order to help you learn from yours.
PARENTING CHILDREN IN DESTRUTIVE FAMILY SYSTEMS
REQUIRES L.O.V.E
LOCATE: WHERE YOU ARE NOW
OBSERVE: WHAT ARE THE CURRENT PATTERNS & CIRCUMSTANCES
VISUALIZE: WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO
EXECUTE: CREATE A PERSONALIZED PLAN AND WALK IT OUT
90 DAY PACKAGE
$1200
INCLUDES:
- First Session: 90 minute Zoom call to get crystal clear on your single biggest challenge and how to approach it with peace and a plan
- Subsequent sessions: weekly 45 minute Zoom calls
- Learn to observe and become aware of the obstacles- including where you’re sabotaging your own progress.
- Identify your triggers and learn techniques to regulate your emotions in difficult situations.
- Experience visualization techniques that can create personalized goals and become an ongoing tool in your parenting toolbox
- Develop a step-by-step action plan to move forward with intention.
- Learn strategies to manage your children's triggers and the 4 step process of teaching them emotional regulation
- Access to your client portal with resources, replays, and a searchable video library
- Accountability, support, & weekly check-ins outside of your appointment time
Not sure which to choose?
Why Me?
Mama, I’ve been there! I’ve experienced more transitions in a span of 10 years than most people experience in a lifetime. Between multiple international moves, changing careers, living in and leaving a destructive marriage, and managing co-parenting in a way most people never achieve, I have seen a lot. In addition, God has gifted me with the ability to take deep dive research and synthesize it into bite-sized, practical steps, and the love of teaching and seeing others thrive! I know you have plenty of options when it comes to choosing a coach, so to take some of the guesswork out of your decision, I’d love to offer you a free 20 minute breakthrough session to get you some clarity on your most challenging issue and to see if we are a good fit!
WHAT TO EXPECT
Listening
Not only will I listen to your words, but I will hear your heart in this transition, and get crystal clear on what exactly you want to accomplish and why.
Observing
Using empathy and awareness, I will discover things in what you say that you are likely unaware of. This helps me in guiding you to further awareness of places where you might be sabotaging your own progress, or working against your goals.
Questioning
A good mentor isn’t just there to offer lip service. In this role, I will challenge you to dig deep into your why, and hold you accountable to your vision for the future. I gently push you just beyond your comfort zone so you can reach new levels of growth.
Investigating
I LOVE to research! If there is a topic I don’t know much about, I will learn. If there’s an expert out there, I will find them. If there’s something that doesn’t quite fit, I will help you exhaust all corners of creation until we find the missing piece.
Guiding
Together, we will come up with a plan that works for YOU and your family. That means discovering your strengths, personality traits, and family style and working within them. I will help you produce a plan that you are excited about walking out.
Exhorting
If you choose to purchase a package, I will keep you on track. I will check in with your progress, and ask how your heart is doing as you move forward. Not only will I hold you accountable, I will hold you accountable, listen to you cry, and help celebrate your victories.
Client Feedback
LET'S DO THIS
- Stop freezing in fear and start walking in boldness
- Take on this transition as if it was something that happened FOR you, not TO you.
- Live the motherhood you’ve always dreamed of, even if it looks different than you expected
- Start becoming the warrior God has called you to be
tHIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- You are facing a major transition or life change
- You are a Jesus follower or are Jesus curious
- You want to grow and are willing to put in the time and effort it takes
- You are willing to receive feedback and take action
tHIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
- You’re happy to hide in the corner and let life happen around you
- You are perfect just the way you are, and are God’s gift to the universe
- You’d rather spend time complaining than changing
- You have no desire to hear anyone else’s ideas or question your own
